Five Things - September 9, 2024

Welcome to my blog titled ‘Five Things’ where you can expect just that - five random musings or reflections from the previous week or so. For a photo gallery of our life on the road, our pets, and miscellaneous things I find interesting, you can also follow me on Instagram @tabithalord.

So here are this week’s five things…

1. You may remember that I had to write a short story to workshop at residency for grad school this summer? I ended up crafting a flash fiction horror piece titled “Monster,” a modern day Frankenstein tale with an AI twist. While I’ve written and sold two horror stories in the past, this is not a genre I gravitate towards, and I've never tried to write flash fiction before (a short story under 1000 words). Well, I’m excited to report that Tales to Terrify acquired this awful little gem, and it will feature on their podcast sometime in the next couple of months! I’ll include a link here when it’s out. If you’d like to have a listen to my other horror stories, you can find them here: Goodbye, Charlie (story begins at 18:40), and Lady in Blue (story begins at 16:39).

2. Fall is in the air! My alter ego discussed my feelings on apple pie, pumpkin spice, and productivity on the ‘Dear Maggie’ blog. You can read that post here: It’s Pumpkin Spice Season!. In summary, fall is my most productive writing time, and it’s a good thing because grad school is a lot of work. Of course it is. It’s grad school. But I am no longer a spring chicken, and doing homework late into the night is a thing of the past, so I’ve been even more obsessive about planning my time. The calendar, notebooks, and to-do lists are back in full force! Those who know me understand I live and die by my organizational system, but truly this keeps me sane.

3. One thing, among many, that I love about my work life is the flexibility. I can plan my days and weeks around my personal rhythm to maximize productivity. The downside to this is that sometimes I don’t totally step away for weeks. As this semester kicks into high gear, I’ve committed to taking at least one full day a week completely off from work, school, and all writing related things. Ray and I are back on the road, and there’s so much to see! When we started this journey, we’d rock into town, make a list of all the things we wanted to do, along with the things we needed to accomplish that week, and make a plan. Well, we’re back to that strategy. Last week, we spent a whole day at Rehoboth Beach in Delaware, reading in our beach chairs and wandering the boardwalk. This week, we’ve already got tickets to the Air and Space Museum at the Smithsonian in DC, and reservations at one of our favorite restaurants in Georgetown. Next stop after this, Kentucky and Nashville!

4. Last week was our 31st wedding anniversary! Yes, you read that right. 31 years! We spent it on the beach and enjoyed a relaxing day together (that day off I mentioned above). People ask how we’re doing now that we essentially live in a tiny, mobile home as big as the bedroom in our last house. My reply is that we are having a blast! I feel incredibly grateful to be on this journey, not just the one in the RV but the one through life, with my best friend, partner in crime, and biggest fan. We look back on what we’ve accomplished together and feel gratified. We look ahead at the future we’re building and feel excited. Mostly, though, we look at each other and know we are with the person we want to be with most in the world.

5. “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” - J.R.R. Tolkien, The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring

Monday Musings 8-31-20

I can’t believe today is the last day of August! When I sat on the front porch this morning, I could feel the change in the air. As fall approaches, I’ve been reflecting on this COVID summer. When all my travel and book promotional events had to be cancelled, I consciously adapted my expectations and revised my goals for the season. Now, standing on the other side, I’m reviewing, assessing, and planning for the fall.

Naturally, I’ve been obsessing over the things I didn’t accomplish, like finishing my latest manuscript. I’ve never been able to produce a lot of content during the summer, but I thought this year, with no travel, I might be able to do more. Turns out, I’m still not all that productive a writer during the summer season.

Okay, so the manuscript is only half finished, but I was busy! My habit, so I don’t get too down on myself, is to review the things I did accomplish right after the list of things I did not. This summer, I worked with an amazing team of educators to prepare our school for reopening. I took on more responsibility at Inkitt, where I am the managing editor for the writer’s blog. I launched two more books in my new romantic suspense series. I read several interesting novels and interviewed a couple of fabulous authors. I started working with a team to plan RI’s Virtual Expo. I rebooked all my travel for next year.

More importantly, I also spent good quality time with my family and close friends. We barbecued, swam, laughed, and yes, drank a bit more than we should have. All in all, for a summer filled with uncertainty and challenge, I came out of it no worse for the wear, and for this, I am very grateful.

I’ll spend the rest of the week planning what I need to accomplish this fall, but for today, I am going to appreciate the crisp air, blue sky, and these last few days of summer.

“Gratitude turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity...it makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” -Melody Beattie